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99 Problems But Your Marriage Ain’t One! Make It Work.

99 Problems But Your Marriage Ain’t One! Make It Work.

Make your marriage work! The best way to be married is to be happily married. I mean who wants to be unhappy? Who wants to dread having yet another silly argument with their spouse? Who wants to excel in other areas of their life yet feel stressed out in their marriage? Ummm…no one! Now don’t…

Flying With Baby? 20 Must-Read Airline Hacks For Traveling with Young Kids
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Flying With Baby? 20 Must-Read Airline Hacks For Traveling with Young Kids

This post is really a warning and a list of ideas for parents who fly with kids. Don’t let TSA or the flight attendent punk you. You can do this! Just check out these 20 hacks.

A Note To Fellas: Give Moms The Day Off For Mother’s Day!
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A Note To Fellas: Give Moms The Day Off For Mother’s Day!

  Mother’s Day, Party of One! Okay, this is a sweet little note for the fellas because I think you all need a little tweaking in this area. Now look, don’t be mad at me…I’m just the messenger! But every year, Mother’s Day rolls around and I listen to my mom friends whine and vent,…

I HATED Mornings; But Motherhood Made Me A Morning Person

I HATED Mornings; But Motherhood Made Me A Morning Person

I’m not a natural morning person. I wasn’t born loving this lifestyle. In fact, I used to hate mornings! When I was younger, mornings always meant I had to do something I didn’t want to do, be somewhere I didn’t want to be, or just perform in general. The world wanted too much from me…

Why I’m Still Nursing A Toddler.
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Why I’m Still Nursing A Toddler.

Yep I’m still nursing a toddler. Deal with it. Before becoming a mom, I knew that I would nurse. I had girlfriends whom I considered role model mommas and they nursed their children so of course I would too. The first few weeks were tough and then there was the first time I got gummed…wow!…

The Joys of Having Twins! Advice, Tips and Hacks!
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The Joys of Having Twins! Advice, Tips and Hacks!

20 fingers, 20 toes, twice the cries and twice the love! So you’re having twins and are pulling out your hair trying to decide what to expect! Sassy Plum asked our favorite twin moms for advice on preparing for 2 babies. Here are some common questions. 

Breastfeeding In Public with Nursingwear Is Stylish & Easy!
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Breastfeeding In Public with Nursingwear Is Stylish & Easy!

When I breastfed my babies I always covered up. I’m not as brave or body-positive as my mom friends that don’t care who sees or stares. For the most part I used a muslin blanket or nursing cover (get these discounted or FREE with coupon codes, just sign up for emails!). But which way is the best…

5 Good Reasons To Take Your Kids To The Local Library

5 Good Reasons To Take Your Kids To The Local Library

Libraries may be “out of style” for us adults now that Kindles and electronic reading have taken over virtually everything. Who wants to be concerned with hard-backed books and the Dewey Decimal System (lol, that’s a throwback) when you have Wikipedia, virtual libraries, and Google?  Well hold tight. Before you throw the baby out with…

Why Black Family Reunions Are A Special Tradition

Why Black Family Reunions Are A Special Tradition

Black family reunions. Matching t-shirts, picnics, whiffs of tender BBQ floating through the air, line-dancing, everyone getting along… well getting along most of the time. You know what I’m talking about. Oh yes, the black family reunion, baby! It’s a pretty standard concept and most of us have been to one, whether we bounce through…

20 Wishes I Have For My Children As They Grow
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20 Wishes I Have For My Children As They Grow

As I watch my children grow, I often daydream about the life I want them to lead and think of ways I can prepare and expose them for what is to come. I won’t always be able to block them from negativity and I cannot promise everything will always go their way. But I will…

7 Parenting Rules I Break And I Don’t Feel Bad… Anymore
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7 Parenting Rules I Break And I Don’t Feel Bad… Anymore

“Rules are not meant to be broken.” Blah blah blah. Before I had kids, I had my life all spelled out, including how I would be the perfect parent. Parenting is super easy, manageable, and predictable as long as you are consistent with your rules. Yes, I actually believed that hogwash… until the kids came….

National Black Marriage Day: Don’t Miss It Next Year!

National Black Marriage Day: Don’t Miss It Next Year!

Happy Belated Black Marriage Day! Confused? How many people knew that this past Sunday was a national holiday for black married couples? I didn’t know, and I try to stay “in the know” about many things happening in and around our community. #BlackMarriageDay didn’t come down my timeline, no one posted about it. And I…

50 Of The Craziest Places Moms Have Pumped Milk!
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50 Of The Craziest Places Moms Have Pumped Milk!

Mamas! We have all been there. Engorged. Pressed for time. Determined to find any place to pump milk for our babies! We will jump through hoops, break through red tape, and pump in unthinkable spaces. No matter the challenge, we will be creative and find a place to pump!