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Why Black Family Reunions Are A Special Tradition

Why Black Family Reunions Are A Special Tradition

Black family reunions. Matching t-shirts, picnics, whiffs of tender BBQ floating through the air, line-dancing, everyone getting along… well getting along most of the time. You know what I’m talking about. Oh yes, the black family reunion, baby! It’s a pretty standard concept and most of us have been to one, whether we bounce through…

National Black Marriage Day: Don’t Miss It Next Year!

National Black Marriage Day: Don’t Miss It Next Year!

Happy Belated Black Marriage Day! Confused? How many people knew that this past Sunday was a national holiday for black married couples? I didn’t know, and I try to stay “in the know” about many things happening in and around our community. #BlackMarriageDay didn’t come down my timeline, no one posted about it. And I…

50 Of The Craziest Places Moms Have Pumped Milk!
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50 Of The Craziest Places Moms Have Pumped Milk!

Mamas! We have all been there. Engorged. Pressed for time. Determined to find any place to pump milk for our babies! We will jump through hoops, break through red tape, and pump in unthinkable spaces. No matter the challenge, we will be creative and find a place to pump!

Why Breastfeeding One Baby Takes an Entire Village
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Why Breastfeeding One Baby Takes an Entire Village

Anyone who thinks breastfeeding a baby is easy and comes naturally for every mother has no idea. It’s supposed to be a perfect, synchronized act in theory, right? Then why can it be so complicated? Because it’s an absolute lifestyle change. A game-changer. A life-changing event. The amount of time we spend prepping, talking about…

Don’t Let Valentine’s Day Disappoint You This Year
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Don’t Let Valentine’s Day Disappoint You This Year

On Valentine’s Day, time stands still. It is the day of relationship-reckoning and the stakes are high, everyone is watching, it’s do or die. Cuddle-season is well underway for those out there dating, a select few husbands are trying to work their way out the doghouse, and the waters are being tested to see who…

The Ways Our Friendship Changed After You Had a Baby
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The Ways Our Friendship Changed After You Had a Baby

Watching you become a mother is bittersweet. As a woman, watching someone you love become a mom is truly a beautiful event to witness. But like most things in life, it can often be bittersweet, especially if you don’t have kids of your own or if you’re used to living up the single life with…

Why Black Couples Still “Jump the Broom” at Weddings

Why Black Couples Still “Jump the Broom” at Weddings

Tie the knot. Get hitched. Take the Plunge. Those are mainstream phrases associated with getting married. Now where I’m from, we say “jump the broom.” And it’s literal. We actually jump over a broom! A ritual passed down through slavery. A tradition that is symbolic of us paying respect to ancestors that came before us. A…

Bothered by Breastfeeding in Public? Here’s a Survival Kit.
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Bothered by Breastfeeding in Public? Here’s a Survival Kit.

Are you bothered by breastfeeding in public?Does seeing a mom breastfeed in public make you want to pull your hair out? Does it make you itch and cringe all over? Is the act so grotesque and inappropriate that you can’t help but speak out over it? If so this post is for you! I understand…

7 Ways to Relive Your Wedding Day Blur

7 Ways to Relive Your Wedding Day Blur

Did everything happen so fast? Was your wedding day a blur? “They” say a wedding is just for a day, and then the marriage begins. And that’s true. But so many brides find that the actual day was a blur, as they were overwhelmed with anxiety, performing, and greeting guests. It can absolutely take the wind…

Have an Inexpensive, Yet Beautiful Wedding and Save $7K

Have an Inexpensive, Yet Beautiful Wedding and Save $7K

Weddings Ain’t Cheap! Looking to have an inexpensive, yet beautiful wedding? The average wedding cost in the United States is $26,645. Do you hear me? $26,645! I mean, who has that type of money to spend on a wedding? No, who has that type of money to spend on what, 8 hours? So many people…

I Thought I Was Done With Breastfeeding, But Puerto Rico Disagreed
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I Thought I Was Done With Breastfeeding, But Puerto Rico Disagreed

I thought I was done with breastfeeding. No milk had come out for two weeks, and baby boy was two years old and on solids. And then I went on vacation…Then suddenly? Waterworks down below.

New Baby Rules for New Visitors
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New Baby Rules for New Visitors

  I’m about to break down the new baby rules for you and most of you aren’t going to like it but here goes. When a baby is born, the most important person in the room is… the mama. That’s right. The mother. And what mama wants should be what mama gets.   Before the…

How to Make Holiday Babies Feel Extra Special
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How to Make Holiday Babies Feel Extra Special

Holiday babies: the gift that keeps on giving. Five years ago, my daughter was born on Christmas Eve. Even though the thought of her being born so close to the biggest holiday of the year was super special and exhilarating, it wasn’t exactly ideal. I was a bit nervous about her future birthdays potentially being…

Why Some Feel Paid Maternity Leave Is Unfair
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Why Some Feel Paid Maternity Leave Is Unfair

Recently, I eavesdropped on a conversation and listened to a woman argue that paid maternity leave is completely unfair. The woman, who does not have children of her own, personally feels the effects of maternity leave because she works alongside many moms in the workplace. I couldn’t “unhear” the statement and decided to jump in. Just…